IVF: One Family’s Journey Through Infertility, Hope and the Joy of Motherhood

By Isaac Eranga

There are wounds that remain invisible to the eye but leave lasting scars on the heart. Infertility is one of them. For many couples, it is not merely a medical diagnosis but an emotional journey marked by hope, disappointment, resilience and, sometimes, triumph. Behind every unanswered question about children may lie years of silent tears, failed treatments and unwavering determination.

My aunt’s story is one I have carried with me since childhood. It is a story that changed my understanding of compassion and taught our family the importance of empathy over judgment.
I was about 10 years old when she married my uncle. They were the couple everyone noticed—not because of wealth or status, but because of the genuine affection they shared. They laughed together, supported one another and seemed happiest when they were simply in each other’s company.

Ironically, their closeness drew criticism from some older relatives who believed married couples should be more reserved in public. Yet they remained inseparable, unaware that a far greater challenge lay ahead.

After their first wedding anniversary, the questions began.

“Any good news yet?”

At first, the inquiries sounded innocent. Over time, however, they became relentless. Every family gathering seemed to include someone asking when they would have a child.

As the years passed without a pregnancy, speculation replaced sympathy. Some relatives quietly blamed my aunt, assuming she was unable to conceive. Few considered that infertility can affect both men and women or that the couple might already be battling a painful medical condition.

The emotional impact became increasingly visible. My aunt attended fewer family events, avoided conversations about children and gradually withdrew from social gatherings. Although I was too young to understand everything happening around me, I could sense that she was carrying a burden too heavy to explain.
Then came a glimmer of hope.

One evening, my mother received an emotional telephone call from my aunt. A newborn baby had reportedly been abandoned at a nearby hospital, and the hospital contacted my aunt and uncle to ask whether they would consider adopting the child.
Our family immediately welcomed the idea.

My mother assured her that the child would be accepted and loved as part of the family.

But before any arrangements could be made, another family completed the adoption.

In a single moment, hope gave way to another heartbreaking disappointment.
Years later, I discovered that this was only one chapter in a much longer struggle.

Behind closed doors, my aunt and uncle had undergone two unsuccessful In Vitro Fertilisation (IVF) procedures and an Intrauterine Insemination (IUI) treatment. Each failed attempt deepened their emotional pain while public expectations continued to grow.
Eventually, the psychological burden became overwhelming, prompting my aunt to seek professional counselling.
It was during one therapy session that a new path emerged. Her therapist recommended fertility specialist Dr. Mona Dahiya in Noida, India, describing her as a physician known for her thorough approach and compassionate care.

Rather than rushing into another round of treatment, my aunt and uncle spent weeks researching the doctor’s credentials, reading patient experiences and carefully considering whether they could endure another attempt.
They eventually travelled from Rajasthan to Noida.

At 38 years old, my aunt knew time was no longer on her side.
What distinguished the consultation was its emphasis on understanding the problem before prescribing treatment. Several days were devoted to comprehensive investigations, including laboratory tests, scans and a detailed review of her medical history.
The careful assessment revealed something previous consultations had overlooked.

She had uterine fibroids.

The diagnosis finally explained years of severe menstrual pain that had repeatedly been dismissed as “normal.” Like many women, she had accepted the discomfort because society often encourages women to endure such pain without seeking further medical evaluation.

With an accurate diagnosis finally established, treatment could be directed at the underlying condition rather than simply addressing its consequences.
The months that followed were demanding, but they were also filled with renewed optimism. Family members travelled to Noida to encourage her, reminding her that she was not alone in the journey.

Today, that difficult chapter has given way to a joyful new beginning.
My aunt is now the proud mother of a beautiful little girl whose laughter has become the soundtrack of every family gathering. Watching her chase her energetic toddler around the house is a powerful reminder that perseverance can sometimes transform years of sorrow into immeasurable joy.
Her experience also carries an important lesson for society.

Infertility should never be treated as a source of shame or public speculation. Couples facing fertility challenges deserve compassion, privacy and access to appropriate medical care—not unsolicited advice or hurtful assumptions.

Medical experts continue to emphasise that infertility is a health condition that can affect either partner and, in many cases, can be managed or treated when properly diagnosed. Equally important is emotional support, which often becomes the strength that sustains couples through long and uncertain journeys.
While not every story ends with the birth of a child, every couple deserves dignity, understanding and hope.

Looking back, our family learned that healing begins not only with the right diagnosis or skilled medical care but also with kindness. Sometimes, the greatest gift we can offer those walking difficult paths is not another question, but our unwavering support.

For families navigating infertility today, this story stands as a reminder that hope, though often tested, should never be abandoned.

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